Problems with dating a divorced dad
I have been dating a wonderful man for about four months now.
We’ve known each other almost 20 years prior to dating, and the transition to an amorous relationship was easy and natural.
I wanted to share my tips on how to thrive while dating a divorced dad to encourage you in case it's a risk you're thinking about taking. It's OK not to come first in his life all the time When you date a dad, there's a fear that you have to compete with his children for his time and attention. No, you aren't always going to be his number one priority in life but nor should you be.
I knew early on, that one of the reasons I loved him so much were his sound values.
However, we’re at the four month mark, and I’m starting to get a bit antsy and curious about a few things.TIP 1: Make sure you are both aligned to what you want.Even though he said he wanted kids, I could tell half way through our dating that things had changed, and I ignored the signs.Having dated a divorced guy, I can speak from experience of what to do and the mistakes to avoid if you do decide to go down this path with a divorced guy, especially if they have kids.DATING MISTAKE 1: I ignored the signs of his opinion on kids.
There are amiable, civilized divorces, and then there are bitter, vindictive divorces—along with everything in-between.